How Comfortable are you hearing the sound of your own voice?

Oftentimes we are fearful of raising and voicing our opinions. We also are often fearful of declaring our needs and the accompanying emotions around unexpressed needs. This fear can relate to how others would be affected and in turn to their reactions. Often fear can arise with what was said and now being unable to retract it, unable to erase it without a trace of fearing the avalanche effects on another’s life.  But now how you live is going to be affected as own the truth of what was voiced. This fear can often be coupled with the greater fear: that of change. It is you now out there, carrying and forging ahead with your life. You are living life now, on your own terms you are free to explore your world and leave your footprint saying that you have lived.

For women particularly entering the last phase of life – whether one had a career to this point, was a homemaker or had other roles, or some combination of roles – this time of life is regarded as freeing. Finding your voice is an essential contribution to living a fulfilled life, whether you  are in a relationship with a significant other or single.  Negotiating this segment of life requires you to be seen and heard- you as a unique being.  You matter, your presence is significant to the world.

Relationships – The long and short of it

Relationships are not always meant to last a lifetime once they start.

Sometimes we attract people into our lives for a reason and maybe for a defined period of time.

 

The thing is not to cling to a relationship that is not serving one’s best interest or both parties’ interests. Holding on to such relationships may embitter either one or both parties. Blessing the relationship for what it has given you would be a good thing to do, and then gently let it go. Hurting in a relationship only leads to embitterment.

It is always best to give from a loving heart otherwise your friendship is not love-based but some kind of trading or conditional love.

 

12th March 5pm GMT Free MasterClass 50+ and wanting to retire. 3 Keys to Reclaim Passion, Power and Purpose in Retirement

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Free Masterclass – Aged 50+ and wanting to retire?

Join me on this brief masterclass on 12th March to learn some of the keys which I teach on my Seminar REIGNITE: Rewire not Retire which will be held in May 2024.  Join me on zoom link below

 

Free Masterclass 12th March 17.00 GMT

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Death – A wakeup call

The transition to the last phase of our life, our Third Act, brings our mortality into sharp focus. Given the busyness of life today there seems to be little time for reflection, let alone talk about death. It seems as if we run from it. Failing to see that if we don’t give it consideration, we miss an opportunity of its potential to bring focus to our life: becoming more mindful and conscious of the gift of each day.

Death is the ever-present shadow in our lives. A wise person will totally embrace that death is inevitable. Death actually gives us a wakeup call. In doing so, it presents us with the challenge to live life fully and live to our highest potential.

So, what if you were told you only had one month left to live? Would your priorities and activities change? What would you be doing?

Maybe develop the wise person in you. Treat each day as if it was going to be the last. By adopting this approach and mindset, awareness enables us to live life to our highest potential every moment of each day.

Every moment matters. Start today and make changes to how you live your life. Commit to living every moment and let nothing stop you.